This will be the last week that we have to finish up our Christmas
purchases before December 25th. Choosing that perfect gift for someone is not
always an easy thing to do, especially if you have no idea what they may like
or need. While giving gifts is a lovely and appropriate way to show our love
and affections towards others; there are other ways of giving gifts that cost
us no money, little effort and goes much further than any tangible gift that
can be given. They are the gifts that keep on giving. They are the gifts of
listening, affection, laughter, a kind word of encouragement and a simple gift
of complimentary words. Sometimes we are a blessing to others when we simply listen
to them ramble on without trying to give them our words of wisdom or
interrupting their sad discord. Often times a good pat on the back to someone,
being generous with our hugs and kisses when appropriate are the perfect way to
celebrate our affection for someone. Sharing funny stories and clean humorous
jokes may just be the very thing that someone needs to forget their troubles
for a time. And never forget to be complimentary to people. Simply saying, “You
look great today”, no matter how their appearance may be at that moment. People
need us to be kind and show them a tender side to counter all the hate and ill
will that they may be subjected to on a daily basis. Everyone benefits from
showing kindness to others.
Research has consistently shown that humans feel
happier when they are performing acts of kindness. By finding ways to be good
and kind to others, you are not only making a difference in their lives, but
you will also feel better about yourself. We humans have survived as a species
because we were created with the capacities to care for those in need and are
hurting. Our sympathy for one another is our strongest instinct. This explains
why we automatically reach out to help, when someone falls or we are moved to
pull over to assist when we witness a car accident. The problem is that society
has become very individualistic and believe that life is all about themselves
and in doing so, they are constantly repressing that God given instinct to do
good. Be aware and notice yourself resisting that urge to ignore and don't let
it keep you from doing things such as stopping to help a person pick up
something they have dropped or helping to change a flat tire for someone. Maybe
even picking up the tab for someone who may need a little assistance. Challenge
yourself to do something good for someone during the holidays and even all year
long. Who knows cooperative behavior is contagious and we all know that the
world could stand for more kindness. Your small gestures are likely to create a
chain reaction of kindness and spread. God encourages his people to be kind to
one another, even to those who may be their enemies. “But love your enemies,
and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be
great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful
and the evil”. Luke 6:35 And never ever forget, “Therefore, as
God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion,
kindness, humility, gentleness and patience”. Colossians 3:12 The greatest gift
that you can give others never changes. It is your love for them! So give it
freely!
Merry Christmas!
Bren
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