From its modest beginnings, Christmas has evolved into the biggest
celebration in the world, yet, we can keep it as simple and as fun as the
effort we put into it. Nothing evokes Christmas memories quite like the smell
of fresh-cut evergreen or seeing the star as it sits atop the tree. Neither can
we forget the Christmas miracle as it is captured in the sweet baby Jesus, of
the Nativity. Who cannot recall the sound of wrapping paper as it’s being
wrapped around the well thought out gifts or a favorite Christmas food, along
with all the special Christmas music, and of course all the traditions that we
have personally maintained through the years in keeping with the memories that
we had growing up, as well as the new ones that we may be beginning with our own
family. But when something or someone throws a wet blanket in on any of it,
well that can make for some unhappy holiday changes. However, that is life and
sometimes, plans just change. This year, no matter what, treasure your
traditions, but be open to some possible new ones. Sometimes the holidays don't
feel exactly as we remember them or how we think they should look or taste. If
you are unable to bend and be flexible, willing to compromise during changes
that may sneak in on your holiday plans, you will only become frustrated and
your frustration will not only effect you, but will spill out into everyone
else’s Holiday. Beside, we all know that Christmas is about more than what we
eat and where we eat it, or the purchase of gifts. Some holiday related
stress is to be expected. Turkeys and hams will be burned. Flights will be
canceled. People will say that they will come or do this or that and in the end
something always comes up that prevents them from doing so. But how you react
to it will most assuredly determine how the holiday will be remembered. Keep in
mind that Holiday pressure hits some people harder than others. So you would do
well to become one of those people who have learned to chuckle at adversity and
laugh off what you are unable to change. Romans 8:28 encourages us to do this,
“And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who
love God, to those who are called according to His purpose".
Try to keep your focus on what is realistic and not ideal, or
you will risk facing major disappointment when
things don't go as planned. Chances are, the holiday
invitations are hitting your inbox and mailbox by now. Between church
functions, the office party, family commitments, and those one day only sales,
you can be stretched too thin. Packing your calendar with obligations means
sacrificing time usually spent on other activities. Be sure to get plenty of
rest during your busy days for rest is one of the best stress relievers and is
very much needed yet often can be the first to go. You're up at the crack of
dawn to rush to the best sales and then stay up late, wrapping them. So don’t
forget to rest and slow things down a bit or your grumpy spirit from the
unwanted stress can damper everyone’s holiday fun. Be ready to say no to some
things. Start to prioritize chores, decline some invitations, and schedule time
to do holiday activities you enjoy, instead of just those you feel you have to
do. The holidays can be particularly trying for people with depression and
other mental illnesses. Feeling depressed at this time of year "can be
particularly hard because we're expected to be happy," Keep it simple,
keep it frugal but most of all remember that your happiness should never be
based on getting or giving. But being content with what you are able to give or
get and spending time with those you love. Combat those Christmas blues by
having a plan and make every effort to find someone to be with this Christmas!
For me and my house, Jesus is the reason for the season!
Merry Christmas!
Bren
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